Learn some funny ways to tell a guy you’re not interested while keeping the mood light and playful. Communicate your feelings with humor and grace.Realizing that someone is into you is hard enough, but realizing that the person isn’t interested… It’s even harder, especially if you have feelings for that person.
Funny Ways to Tell a Guy You’re Not Interested.
It is important to understand why you don’t like him and want to reject him. Do you not like his habits and character traits? Interests? Appearance? Is it really your desire to reject, or did your friend advise you because you are both looking for a Cole Sprouse clone, and this guy does not reach the required level? If it is a matter of small things, then I would advise giving the guy a chance,
- “I’m not ready right now, but maybe later”
- “I don’t want a relationship right now, maybe in a few months I’ll change my mind.
- I don’t think we should go out or I can’t go out with you
- Praise him and his efforts, tell him that you are pleased (even if you are very, very upset).
- Explain why you can’t be together: your heart is taken, he’s not your type, or something like that – the main thing is not to yell “Oh my God, have you seen yourself in the mirror?!”
- Express confidence that he will definitely find a girl who will love him and in general, such persistence is a very good quality for a guy, he is a great guy. (He will be pleased, and he will not feel humiliated).
- Say again that you enjoyed his courtship, but “alas.” Smile sweetly and say goodbye.
Important:
- Choose your time wisely. Don’t “finish him off” if he’s going through a tough time, tired, angry or busy – you might just get caught in the heat of the moment, and even the most reasonable guy will react unpredictably.
- Cook in private. Refusing in front of the whole class, during recess or somewhere crowded, and loudly at that, is not an option. It should be just the two of you to avoid awkwardness (cafes do not count).
- Don’t offer to remain friends. After a categorical refusal, you can’t offer a guy friendship, otherwise he will decide that you didn’t refuse seriously, but to flirt and spur him on to more decisive actions. You don’t want him to suffer and hope in vain, do you? No friendship. At least at first, until he cools down.
He is probably trying to please you, investing time and effort, and the only correct option is to refuse him tactfully. I repeat – tactfully and carefully – if you don’t like a guy, this is not a reason to treat him rudely and break his psyche . It is important to make it clear that your “no” is “no”, and not “maybe someday”