Before writing this article, we studied several online practices on the topic of “How to make a man think about you” and everywhere we came across the same advice: “Surprise him, be different!” And we think that this is bad, useless advice. Firstly, what does “not like everyone else” mean? All women are different anyway, what exactly should you not be? Secondly, this advice implies that you are “like everyone else”, and therefore he is bored with you. It seems a bit like an insult, don’t you think? And thirdly, this advice means that you need to immediately change and start behaving unpredictably. Yes, of course, this is how you can make a man think about you. But what exactly to think about — isn’t that important? In general, we think that this advice is useless and give the exact opposite: don’t try to impress him by pretending to be mysterious “different”. Otherwise, he will start thinking not about you, but about that “different one”. Don’t multiply entities (including your own).